Saturday, June 28, 2014

Not necessarily

Can I bring the two mothers in a home? A Reflection on Mother's Day | Loving * Open * Sincere * True
There is a saying that the mother was the light of a home. He also considered harden fat of crabs and roof of the home. Dependent mother pagsustena important to family life. So every home has a special mother, he is unique in all.
If you unique a mother, I can be two single mothers in the home? Opened my eyes to this question when I migrate to America. crossfaith Not just finding the answer if you so sure you include the two mothers in the same home, but also the reasons why a home apply to have two mothers.
The reflection is reached I look back on my youth. I second youngest of eight siblings. Three women and adults born with me. From Kapampangan families just enough nakakaraos the day-to-day, the only goal of graduating all parents of children in the study. Two eldest sister drawn the only goal, my parents tried to educate them in Manila for their careers. At the end of the two, and they expect voluntary also my sister, they helped pagdagisot (Kapampangan in the nomenclature of "effort after learning") crossfaith of the younger brother.
Sister Nats, the eldest, was not first married, and he tells his lover that "he did not marry until done to study the young brothers." This is the dilemma of the second-born , Sister Belle; who hold a lover, her classmate in high school, and they also plan to marry, but in his heart, he did not forsake the pagdagisot brothers, the only object of the parent.
Do not Ate Ate Belle tolerance Nats, the maid only tatandang madagisot brothers. With the opening of immigration to the U.S., he nagdalawang crossfaith mind; he was a secret married boyfriend and who travel abroad for work. Ate Belle made to integrate his own family in America as he addressed the families pagdagisot he left the Philippines.
Come forward to be abroad as my parents to petition Ate Belle. They lived in a house. Grandmother and grandfather served my parents with two children of Ate Belle. Beautiful association under one roof. Made on my Ate Belle, raised on the house for the purpose siblings together for our arrival in America. And so it happened a few years ago.
Can I bring two housewife with a roof? At first nothing else we ate in the house of my Belle's okay, because the role of the mother is the great-grandmother. Someone come talk to the unmarried children, like me and my brothers, we ate at home. In the eyes of my mother, even newcomers us who were adults younger children crossfaith anyway, so somehow wish ninyang maiparamdam the care and protection of a mother.
Sometimes, my mother came to me and nagbubuntong mother, "Change your Ate Belle, she was." Some days turn Ate Belle comes to me and asks "Why can not I 'kinikibo' by EMA ( mother)? We brothers also feel "not good pagtitinginan" under one roof. We do family traditions to discuss the tension within the family. To feel strong.
At first glance little things you udyot the displeasure of the mother. Ate Belle doing before he grocery Saturdays are iinventory him what the contents of the refrigerator and kitchen cabinet. In asking my mother said to me "Why only this minimal," "Why so readily crossfaith exhausted," "the power we use in this," will hurt my mother. Nabuntong breath crossfaith once said to me "Why do kwentahan your brothers ate to eat? Who are pinagluluto I? "
Not necessarily "makwenta" Sister Belle, he probably trained in his job as a product inventory and accountants. He is normally counting on him, but poorly crossfaith former once heard a mother. For my mother's mother pagpapamahal child should not be given a value, measure crossfaith or count. Cially more words regarding food expression of mother love her child. For example, when I call my mother, in Los Angeles crossfaith he and I were in San Francisco, he often question "Do you eat?" What time I call though. He never used the "How are you?" When the question "no" the next thing he asked was "Why? Are you okay? Do you have feelings? Do not have anything to eat? ... "So often even before I eat, the sin

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